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Wednesday 7 September 2016

S.T.R.O.N.G

Hello. I realize I haven't shared anything personal in a while and today I am going to do just that. This is an experience I wish I had shared some days back but I got carried away by other events happening in my life. I am sure I have shared with you the good news about my new job. All that glitters isn't gold, believe me. It's not that I am regretting my  present position or that the working condition is not great, it's just that I am too 'ajebutter' for Lagos traffic life.


At The Concept Group, we have this group called Rosabon Financial Service, one of the projects handled by this team is Car leasing. So, there I was on Tuesday afternoon writing a story for the campaign of this said project and I had no idea that I would soon start wishing I could also lease a car.

The need for a car is dire in my case. It is a necessity as the road that leads to Yaba is not appealing to the eyes and feet. The weather has been mean as well and when there is rain, there is filth.


So, as the day ended I picked up my bag and changed my footwear to a comfy flip flop and went on my way. I got to the car park and boarded a bus but had to wait for over an hour before it got filled. That defeated the whole point of leaving the office early to beat traffic.


A certain old woman sat beside me and I was practically sandwiched between two people in that cramped bus. Then came the traffic. We were moving at a snail pace and given my sitting condition, I was more than uncomfortable. Then the old woman beside me raised her legs to air her private part. She kept fanning the foul thing and the odor was....I choose not to recall.


I could not wait to get home at that point but to my detriment, after a long journey, I alighted from the bus at my bus-stop and landed on a muddy ground. The rain had not been kind to that ground as I felt I was on the brink of tearing up just by staring at it. My flip flops and feet were beyond recognition by the time I got home.


That experience alone made me wish I had a car or a job that was closer. As I looked forward to a new day and a new experience I began to sing a popular song by Mary-Mary. I can't remember the title but the chorus is 'I just can't give up now, I've come too far from where I started from. Nobody told me the road would be easy and I don't believe he's brought me this far to leave me'. Singing that song made me feel a whole lot better.


So, I will leave you with this today, do not give up. I won't.


Enjoy this devotional.

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Joyce Meyer: Promises for Your Everyday Life - a Daily Devotional

Joyce Meyer: Promises for Your Everyday Life - a Daily Devotional

Hi. Good morning to you. So I've decided to start sharing my current devotional to you. I know so many of you have the zeal to engage in one sort of devotion or the other, daily. Here, I am presenting to you a free access to one amongst many devotionals, Joyce Meyer's. I hope this would be as meaningful to you as it is to me. Joyce Meyer: Promises for Your Everyday Life - a Daily Devotional

Tuesday 30 August 2016

MY SOURCE OF JOY ( A FLASH FICTION)


A man came by the other day, with a weird object hanging around his neck. His appearance had me staring like he were some sort of god descending upon us. His clothes were not filthy like ours always was, rather he had a clean pair of black shorts and the whitest polo I'd ever seen. His sneakers made me scheme silently to get my hands on them and see if my filth would rub off on the pair. We have lived here since our escape, my sister and I. She is my other half, the only treasure I was left with after our parents died.

We were separated and made to live with an uncle from both our paternal and maternal side, respectively - I wish I had gotten the paternal uncle instead of my sister. I had so much fun with my maternal uncle and his wife, pampered me despite the fact that they didn't have much. Little did I know that they were plotting my imminent death by using me for money ritual. I was clueless until the day I stumbled upon them during a secret discussion on my way to the kitchen. You can imagine my shock at the time.

I've always been quick on my feet and brain right from age 2 so I knew no one would really believe a statement from a mere 8 year old boy over that of the adults in my country. I won't tell you what country I'm from so you don't lose trust in my people but a lot of children are used for money rituals here and someday I do hope to stop it.

Pardon my diversion from my narration, I can't help but point out the relevant aspect in this. I'd let you form your own perception.

I ran like a fool on that fateful day. I call it a foolhardy move because I could have planned it all by leaving with at least a pair of shoe on my feet. I ran with a destination in mind, to my supposed salvation which I thought would be found in uncle number two. Sadly, my marathon got me to a house of a screaming child which I identified as that of my other half.

I wondered and pondered within the space of two seconds about what the hell could be going on. My feet once again acted faster than my brain as I ran all the way up the stairs despite my fatigue. I was weary because I knew my discovery would not make me happy. How right I was when I stumbled upon a scene I still replay over and over and over again, even in my dream.

My sister lay like a corpse on the floor, her right hand at an angle I could not fathom. I just knew it wasn't normal. Her right leg was scarred like it had been burnt in a furnace, I still wonder how she had survived going through that. My mother used to braid her long hair which she flaunted everywhere but as I stared at her bald head I was struck with shock.

I had no idea I was weeping until the wolf in sheep's clothing looked up and stared at me, she's my mean aunt. In her hand was an iron that had traces of flesh on it, I could smell it, the foul odor of burnt rubber - my sister's skin.

I looked down and saw her back, my sister's back, it had that distinctive shape of a triangle. I let out a cry of torture as the devil walked towards me. My uncle ran in at that moment, from the room before me, where on earth had he been? He looked shocked at what he saw but I believe he was shocked it was I who saw all that had been going on.

The next thing I knew we were at the hospital. A day or two is all it took for me to realize the police would not come through. No one believed me, after all I was only a little boy. The nurses thought I was delusional, just another case of a traumatic child who misses his mother.

I sat beside her on her sick bed, she might not have looked like herself but when she opened her eyes finally, I felt a burst of joy flood in. I was excited my other half was alive which gave me every reason to fight for mine.

I walked around that hospital like a stranger, trying to be the wall that had ears, wanting to know what the adults were plotting. It paid off as I heard it all. My maternal uncle was coming for me and my paternal uncle would definitely support me.

How could no one understand that my twin got in here through an abuse and not an accident? I discovered she was a regular, she was termed as a damage to herself. They believe this was another case of Mie cupa, ‘I did it to myself’.

I cried in silence cos I was just an 8 year old boy. What was I to do? Wait for a savior?

A week later I let my feet be creative. I whispered to my twin that we'd be alright. I grabbed her hand and wrapped my arm around her, we walked in silence and played the ghost to others. We went unnoticed I think or maybe we were seen but ignored, who knows?

Ran we did, on and on, to nowhere. I carried my twin on my back cos she was just too weak to walk on her own two feet. If she died on me I'd be a fool who grabbed a pitiful child from agony to misery. So I was desperate to survive, determined to do all I could for her.

But the strange thing happened and we met a savior, a little old dog he came, his true form still unknown. He led us through a bushy path and I walked on and on. I was not weak or exhausted, I felt stronger than ever.

We arrived at a deserted hut after hours of a trek through our new paradise. Anywhere from pain is what we define that.

I lay my sister upon the tattered mat. I sigh of relief I released. It was all in the hands of the savior to fend for us.

Everyday felt like a year. Fending for ourselves, a doctor I became. I treated our weird ailments and became the breadwinner out of the blues. The dog remained there as our daily companion and our best friend.

A day came after several had passed and we went on our knees to pray. Our paradise was becoming a nightmare with the harmful companions of the deep dark forest.

The very next day, our dog ran away. How were we to know that he was a messenger sent to bring in a new savior.

Before his uninvited visit my twin sister and I were having a feast. We were munching off the leftover meal from last night, a rare rat-like beast.

We heard a familiar bark a distance away. We felt glad for our dog was back to stay. Then came the stranger with the weird object hanging around his neck. His appearance had me staring like he were some sort of god descending upon us. His clothes were not filthy like ours always was, rather he had a clean pair of black shorts and the whitest polo I'd ever seen. His sneakers made me scheme silently to get my hands on them and see if my filth would rub off on the pair.

With a click he took a shot. This triggered my memory of the life I used to have. While staring at his outstretched hand I contemplated my options. Should I remain in this hell-like paradise or move on to a new fate?

Whatever choices I make, as long as I have her beside me, safe and protected, I will be fine. She alone is my one and only paradise. The source of joy I’m glad I’ve found.

XOXO

PLAIN

(This story might be a fiction but there is still child abuse going on in our own backyard. lease reach out a helping hand to help those neglected and hopeless children. May God reward you accordingly)

(I do not claim ownership to the image used for this story)

PHONE ETIQUETTE (You need it, trust me)


Hi guys. So today is day two at Concept Group and I'm already in the process of dancing to the tune of the workforce. I was given a task to contact a Print media in relations to an issue I refuse to disclose at the moment.

I started getting jittery at the thought of making a call in the midst of my colleagues, who I'm yet to be familiar with. So I was advised to go to a secluded area by my sister's fiance. I opted for the conference room as it promises peace and quiet for the moment.

I was also advised to pick an early hour of the day when most of the Staff would be yet to resume, so I chose 8 am. Then I decided to to my own research, to surf the net. I came across several helpful sites but among the several is this particular one that I hope would help you too. I'll only give a brief detail and it's left for you to click on the link to get the total package. Enjoy and Learn.

                                      1. Always identify yourself at the beginning of all calls.

2. Be sensitive to the tone of your voice.

3. Think through exactly what you plan to say and discuss BEFORE you place a call.

4. Do not allow interruptions to occur during conversations.

5. Especially when leaving messages, speak clearly and slowly. 

6. Build the habit of always turning off your cell phone ringer when entering a meeting, restaurant, theater, training class, or other place

7. Always speak into the telephone receiver with an even and low tone of voice.

8. Do not allow yourself to be distracted by other activities while speaking on the telephone


For an in-depth study of these tips, go to http://www.advancedetiquette.com/2012/01/8-telephone-etiquette-tips/ 

I hope this helps you.

XOXO

PLAIN

Monday 29 August 2016

Beneath the Microscope

I don't know if you've read my blog on what it takes to be ready for a job interview, if you haven't well you're in luck because here's a link to it http://writersartforum.blogspot.com.ng/2016/08/apply-for-job-interview-here.html

This is a follow-up on that as I'm so happy to announce to who ever cares to know that I've gotten the job. Yes people, I'm now a Communication Executive at The Concept Group. Prepare yourself because I'll be telling you a lot about my experience here - the good, the bad and the ugly. I do hope I don't get queried by the Oga at the top for the gist I'll be bringing your way. In this regard, I'll need your support in prayer.

So I started officially yesterday, the 29th of August, 2016. My friends and family kept asking me how my first day was at the end and I realized I had a different response for each and every one of them. I said things like "It was scary", "I felt Isolated", "I felt out of it", I had a truck full of comments for just a single question and I have to question myself now. Why?



I'm one of the many introverts in the world. I like to believe i have what I choose to call socio-phobia (the fear of socializing). I'm horrible at beginning and sustaining a conversation. I'm awkward in my own skin most of the time. But I choose to embrace me.

Today I read in Proverbs 29:18 that 'Where there is no vision, the people perish; but he that keepeth the law, happy is he'. I decided to choose God's vision for me and in order to achieve this I have to be ready to keep His law close to my heart.

I will live each day as planned by Him. If I mess up then I will make sure it will not be from a lack of effort on my part. I will run this race like it's my last. I'll be myself and whoever doesn't like it can suck it. I am the daughter of a King so I should act like one. I was born to be great so even if the journey might seem tough, I will not give up.

What choice do you choose to make today? What challenge are you facing that needs to be turned around for good? Make a decision. Determine a Vision. Choose Christ. Just like me.

So you ask how my first day was? Well, now I can say easily that it wasn't what I had expected but I hope for a better today.

Have a great day.

Xoxo

Plain

Friday 19 August 2016

THE PEN PAL SERIES (EPISODE 5)

RECAP


He was a well-built man of 6ft 2inches and towered over her mother’s 5ft 7inches frame. He was blessed with a fair complexion which her brothers had inherited. In his days, he had been popular among his peers. On the contrary, her mom was a petite woman but was also a fair lady. She was also pretty.


EPISODE FIVE
While she was still a young child of seven, Marylyn would just sit on her mother’s bed and stare in awe as she watched her rub her pancake and put on her jewelry. Her mom grew up on foreign soil, so she wasn’t as grounded as her father in terms of Culture and Tradition. She loved to dress the English way while her father only wore an English attire only on special occasions.

Even at the moment, on a rare Saturday where he was staying at home, he had his igbo cap on his head. Her dad intrigued her. 

Her mother’s skin glowed even in the dark. She used special body lotions and moisturizers to maintain her complexion and only used branded products. I used hear my dad say to her in igbo that her parents spoilt her because she was an only child. 

All that happened when Marylyn was really young and it was before her mom started attending the church in the area they relocated to. They relocated to their own house when she was eight years old.

Her mom just stopped idolizing material things. She began to do everything in moderation and that made Marylyn eager to know what had caused that change. Her mother was still determined to doll up her daughter, so that didn’t change. She was really proud of her. Her beautiful and homely mother. Sometimes, she would make wishes to Santa when she still believed he existed that he would make her just like her mother when she grew up. 

Twenty-six year old Marylyn was the opposite of her mother so that wish definitely didn’t come true despite years of writing and placing it under their sky-high Christmas tree. 

The sad thing was due to some strong biological genes from her mother’s side, Marylyn had inherited her grandmother’s chocolate complexion. She was the brown girl in the family. The odd one. 

That was probably the reason her dad took her under his wings. She was very proud of him most of the time. The fact that he embarrassed her with his over-protectiveness sometimes made her regret being the only girl and last born. Still, her dad was very handsome.

What made him stand out even more was his faith. He was so passionate about God that his passion had rubbed off on his children and friends over the years. He had recently been ordained a Minister in their church and it would have been a great thing if only it wasn’t her dad.

Monday 15 August 2016

THE PEN PAL SERIES (EPISODE 4)



RECAP
She was the only girl and since she was casualmanda, a nickname she was given by her bully brothers, she wasn’t really treated in any special way, just the usual way a last child would be treated. She hadn’t earned it. She wasn’t exceptionally pretty. As a matter of fact, she was pretty ordinary. She was one of the pack, her father’s pet, her brother’s prey and her mom’s pet project.

EPISODE FOUR
 
Her mom refused to believe she was not girly enough to want to do all the girly things she wanted. Whenever her mom wanted to go to the boutique, Marylyn just wanted to stay home. When mom wanted to go to the saloon, Marylyn just wanted to stay home. When mom wanted to go grocery shopping, Marylyn just wanted to stay home. So basically, she just wanted to be at home all the time. 

She wasn’t lazy, on the contrary she was a really hardworking child and her mom was grateful for that every day since all her sons were too manly to want to assist her with any of the chores. Marylyn was simply a shy child who didn’t have much friends. She was the daughter of a rich man so there were always teens eager to be her friend but she just didn’t know how to communicate with them. 

She had drowned herself in her books so she had good grades and it was with these grades and hope that she had taken a bold step to walk up to her father on one fateful day to have ‘The Conversation’.

“Dad, good afternoon” She said as she entered his study. He looked over his reading glasses at her, causing him to take his attention off the prints on the daily newspaper he had been in the process of reading. She always wondered why he liked doing that. It made him look like some sort of professor. Her dad would have made a great professor due to his stern reputation in the house and in his profession.

He was a Surgeon, a renowned one who had won many awards and written even more books. She had never finished any of them. They were bombarded with so many biological names that her brain always turned to mush somewhere in the process of reading. 

He was a well-built man of 6ft 2inches and towered over her mother’s 5ft 7inches frame. He was blessed with a fair complexion which her brothers had inherited. In his days, he had been popular among his peers. On the contrary, her mom was a petite woman but was also a fair lady. She was also pretty.